This is very simple.
If you're trying to be a better ally and have questions that you're too embarrassed to ask, ask me.
If you also know that you should NOT overburden Black people for White people's "work", this is your chance for a fair exchange that will pay a Black person for their emotional labor.
Let's just call it direct reparations.
If any of this is not agreeable to you, I am not going to be sufficient in bringing you into allyship. This is a niche offering for White people that are already "woke" but need to hone themselves. I am very kind and approachable but please do not waste my time. If you're are still learning why it's not "All Lives Matter", you're not an ally yet. I will have open arms when you have done more learning.
If you believe your liberation depends on me and mine depends on you, you're my "people" and I love you.
If this sounds good to you, let's keep going.